Clutterinfo 01/28/09

Alt.Recovery.Clutter FAQ
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New:  LiveJournal Community unclutter_2009

Twin Cities Meetup:  Stage Your Life http://www.meetup.com/Stage-Your-Life/

Newish:  How to do things: How to declutter
By Vanessa Raymond

http://www.att.net/s/editorial.dll?eetype=Article&eeid=6215707&render=y&ck=&Table

Recommended by “I was the cat” Sat, 22 Nov 2008

Your 2009 Declutter Calendar

http://www.mysimplerlife.com/calendar2009/2009.htm

Recommended magicwoman on LiveJournal

The latest version of this FAQ will usually be at http://dsgood.wordpress.com/clutterinfo-2/

If you know something should be added, please let me know; and please say why.

1. Is cluttering a real problem?

If cluttering (hoarding, packrattery, string-saving) is a problem for you, it’s a real problem.  Some people don’t mind little things like paying twice as much to house a collection as they spend to house themselves.

If it’s a problem to you, you can find support and advice in alt.recovery.clutter.

Q: What is clutter?
A: “Clutter is anything we don’t need, want, or use that takes our time, energy or space, and destroys our serenity.  It can be outgrown clothes, obsolete paper….We may be selective in some areas, but not in others. Objects may be strewn about or wedged into drawers; neatly stacked or stowed in storage.” The Twelve Steps of Clutterers Anonymous, CLA WSO Literature Committee, approved February 1996.

2. What causes it?

Buddhist parable:  A soldier has been wounded by an arrow.  If it’s removed right away, he’ll survive.  But before he’ll let the doctor operate, he wants to know about the arrowmaker:  Who is he?  What’s his caste?  How many children does he have?  What’s his blood type?  How does he vote?  What TV programs does he watch?  And the list of questions goes on for what turns out to be the rest of the soldier’s life.

It can be useful to know that clutterers are more likely than most to:  be clinically depressed, have Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD), Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) or Asperger’s/Autism.  Or to have other medical conditions which sap physical or emotional strength, ability to pay attention, or both.  If you suspect you have a medical problem, it’s a good idea to find out.  You might be able to alleviate it, or work around it.

But there are people with these conditions who aren’t clutterers; and clutterers who don’t have any of them.

Family background?  Some clutterers learned from their parents.  Others had painfully neat parents.

The Depression as a cause?  There were clutterers long before the 1930s.

And there are rich clutterers; if someone could easily afford twenty new cars,that won’t keep him from holding on to a collection of near-wrecks because “They might be useful someday.”

Besides this newsgroup, you might also want to try an email list:

DitchThatClutter@yahoogroups.com.  To subscribe, send any message to DitchThatClutter@yahoogroups.com.  This seems to be the liveliest one just now.

The Unclutter list (unclutter@yahoogroups.com) has replaced the Decluttr list.  To join:  If you don’t have a Yahoo account, send an email to unclutter-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.  If you do have a Yahoo account, go to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unclutter to subscribe.

“I started a Google Group for people who practice the FlyLady system. It’s at: http://groups.google.com/group/flybaby” Christine

Freecycle is a set of local mailing lists for people who have stuff to give away and people who want stuff.  At http://freecycle.org there’s a directory of local Freecycle mailing lists for every continent except Antarctica.

LiveJournal (http://livejournal.com) communities listed as interested in decluttering:
added 1/09: unclutter_2009 Lively so far
anticonsumerex – Financial Freedom Shall Be Ours!
clean_gweep – Do not mess with the Gweep armed with the broom.
flyladies – Flyladies and Flybabies Community
frugaluxe
it_all_goes
organize – Let’s Get Organized
organizedlife – Organized Life
pagans_fly
stonesoupswap
goal_posts; focus is on overcoming procrastination

Organizations for clutterers

If you can’t find a local group, call your local self-help phone number (if you can’t find it easily in the phonebook, ask your local library for help finding it).  In some areas, you can just call 211.

If there’s an organization or local meeting not listed here which you think should be, please let me know. I’m also interested in people’s experiences with groups.

Where a phone number is given, please call first to make sure the meeting is still at the time and place given.

Clutterers Anonymous World Service Organization: http://www.clutterersanonymous.net phone: (310) 281-6064; recording, you can leave messages.  CLA, PO Box 91413, Los Angeles, CA 90009-91413.  CLA East:  (866) 800-3881, http://www.claeast.org.  12-Step group.

Messies Anonymous: 5025 SW 114th Ave., Miami, FL 33165. 1-800-MESS AWAY Quarterly newsletter $5 per year — sample newsletter free. Internet: info@messies.com. Website: http://www.messies.com  Uses the 12 Steps, but doesn’t adhere to all guidelines.  (Founder isn’t anonymous.)

“If you write to the address for the newsletter and include your city and state, you will receive a list of others in the area who have asked for the same information OR the name and number of the person who has organized such a group–if there is one. You will also receive as much information and support as you might need if you want to start your own group.” Bonnie Rice
Change: You can now ask from the website.

Clutterless. http://www.clutterless.org Not a 12-step group, but uses some things from the 12-step tradition.

If there isn’t a group in your area:  Messies Anonymous has online meetings.  Clutterers Anonymous has several phone meetings.  Other 12-step groups which might be useful:  Adult Children Anonymous/Adult Children of Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon, Debtors Anonymous.  (Suggestions for non-12-step groups welcome.)

For some clutterers, Adult Children of Alcoholic and Dysfunctional Families can be useful:  http://adultchildren.org.

The Underearners Anonymous list of traits includes hoarding:  http://underearnersanonymous.org/

The purpose of http://meetup.com is to set up and help local groups of many kinds. [updated 12/29/07; will be updated again when I find out how to get a list which isn't just local.  Used to be able to do this before Meetup "improved" their website.]

Added 1/09 Stage Your Life http://www.meetup.com/Stage-Your-Life/
# Washington DC Simplicity (Washington, DC US; 103 members) 38.9-77.04
# SOS! “Simplify, Organize & Succeed” Declutter Raleigh (Raleigh, NC US; 60 members) 35.8-78.7
# The DC Declutter and Energetic Alignment Meetup Group (Washington, DC US; 60 members) 38.92-77.04
# Declutterers Anonymous (Irvine, CA US; 41 members) 33.69-117.79
# The Philadelphia Area Get Organized Meetup Group (Phoenixville, PA US; 24 members) 40.11-75.55
# Design & Declutter your life! (Royal Oak, MI US; 22 members) 42.52-83.16
# The Richmond Declutter Meetup Group (Richmond, VA US; 18 members) 37.52-77.5
# Overcoming Clutter (Hicksville, NY US; 17 members) 40.77-73.52
# The Bellevue Declutter Meetup Group (Bellevue, WA US; 17 members) 47.62-122.21
# The NJ ADD Meetup Group (Union, NJ US; 15 members) 40.69-74.27
# The St. Tammany Parish Northshore FlyLady Meetup Group (Mandeville, LA US; 7 members) 30.42-90.01
# The Richmond Declutter Meetup Group 2 (Richmond, VA US; 6 members)

Passed on by Lori Burkart
‘A Hoarders’ and Clutterers’ Support Group has been formed in San Francisco and meets twice a month….

‘The flyer reads:
“For Mental Health Consumers who have too much stuff and want help, the San Francisco Mental Health Association’s Consumer Housing Group presents a Hoarders’ and Clutterers’ Support Group”

Subject: RE: Hoarders and Clutterers Support Group
From: “Mental Health Association of San Francisco” <info@mha-sf.org>
Date: Thu, 27 Jan 2005 09:31:26 -0800

Dear Dan,

Our support group does still exist and meets the 2nd Mondays and 4th Wednesdays of every month.  The time is always 6-7pm.  The location is 870 Market Street, Suite 622 S.F. CA 94102

However it is important to note that the suite location is subject to change because of availability.  For that reasons please call first to find out the suite number prior to arriving, or they will be a sign posted outside of suite 928 advising of the location.

Antonio is the staff person who runs the group; please call him if you have further question at (415) 421-2926 ext. 306
Thanks

Donice Carter
Office Manager/Executive Assistant
Mental Health Association of San Francisco
870 Market Street, Suite 928
San Francisco, CA 94102
415-421-2926 (phone)
415-421-2928 (fax)
http://www.mha-sf.org

Informal: Minnesota; around St. Louis Park/Edina/Golden Valley –someone who can’t currently get to CLA meetings would like to meet informally. Call Zola at (612) 921-4917.

Useful Books, etc.

From: “Maelstrom Mel”
Subject: Re: Where are there other clutter organizing forums and listservs with more hints, tips and pointers?…
Date: Sat, 24 May 2008 16:32:52 GMT
Newsgroups: alt.recovery.clutter

I frequent a very nice blog named Zen Habits.  The writer of this blog often posts articles about living an organized life and how to de-clutter.  Here is a link to a post in which he summarized a lot of his ideas, and he also provides a lot of links to other Web sites dealing with similar topics:

http://zenhabits.net/2007/01/zen-mind-how-to-declutter/

——–
Barb Rogers, _Clutter Junkie No More_
Sandra Felton. THE MESSIES MANUAL: The Procrastinator’s Guide to Good
Housekeeping
THE MESSIES SUPERGUIDE: Strategies and Ideas for Conquering Catastrophic Living.
MEDITATIONS FOR MESSIES
Alcoholics Anonymous TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS
Don Aslett: Clutter’s Last Stand, Not For Pack Rats Only, How do I Clean the Moosehead?
Stephanie Culp: How to Organize, How to Simplify Your Life
Young and Jones, Sidetracked Home Executives (Warner 1981)
Young and Jones, The Sidetracked Sisters Catch-up on the Kitchen (Warner 1983)
Young and Jones, The Sidetracked Sisters’ Happiness File (Warner 1985)
Young and Jones, Get Your Act Together (Harper Collins 1993).
(….) SHE and GYAT can usually be found at large chain bookstores or Christian bookstores (these are not “Christian” publications, per se). the sisters themselves peddle a variety of SHE items…. Address is:
Sidetracked Home Executives, Inc.
P. O. Box 5364
Vancouver, WA 98668 [360] 696-4091
http//www.shesintouch.com

“Confessions of an Organized Homemaker” by Deniece Schofield. (Publisher: Betterway Books, Cincinnati OH. The cover lists it at 10.99US, 15.99CAN, 7.99UK).

“Lighten Up! Free Yourself From Clutter,” by Michelle Passoff, Harper Collins Publishers, 1998.  ISBN 0-06-095265-2.

Useful websites:

http://unclutterer.com/

http://www.clutterclarity.com; website of a professional organizer who has tips on doing your own decluttering.

Fri, 23 Jan 1998
ttista
cleaning tools

I follow Don Aslett’s book Is There Life After Housework. You can get his catalog 1-800-451-2402. I use his mop, it’s called a scrubbee doo. really.

He explains how to use the right cleaning tools, and cleaning products.

http://www.cleanreport.com/

Sat, 11 April 1998
Mycala W Shaulis
Kitchen Web Link

http://www.123sortit.com/toc.html

It covers not just the kitchen, but virtually every room in the house.

Mon, 28 Jun 1999
Katrina Ancel
organizing Link

Thought I’d pass this one along..it is the Professional  Web Ring…tons of info on getting organized at the home site, plus since it’s a ring they link to other sites on the topic..

http://www.organizerswebring.com/

Jeri Dansky <jdorganizer@earthlink.net>
Sun, 05 Dec 2004 15:51:49 -0800

While this is a ring of Professional Organizers, you might also want to note the site of the National Association of Professional Organizers, at

http://www.napo.net/

Jeri Dansky <jdorganizer@earthlink.net>
Sun, 05 Dec 2004 15:51:49 -0800

Link doesn’t work on this one – looks like it should be
http://www.wecosoft.com/geniescorner/index.asp instead:

Chore Genie is a shareware application that helps to schedule your household chores, includes a menu-builder and a to-do list…. We offer tips and worksheets for getting started, which can be viewed on our web site at [see abovel…. We even have an email loop anyone can join by sending me a request to GenieMail@wecosoft.com. The email loop has tips for using the program as well as general topics for staying motivated, getting started and anything else that is on topic. Anyone is welcome to join!

alt.recovery.clutter
From: naomiy
[1] Found a neat web site! (Pun intended)
Date: Thu Aug 19 1999

Check out: http://www.organizedhome.com./

A bit advanced for some of us maybe, but there are lots of good resources here!

3 Responses to “Clutterinfo 01/28/09”

  1. thnidu Says:

    Thanks.

  2. Wordweaverlynn Says:

    The Underearners Anonymous link is wrong; it should be http://underearnersanonymous.org/

    The page with downloadable symptoms, time sheets, and so on is http://underearnersanonymous.org/literature.html

    Thanks soooo much for this page.

  3. mary redford Says:

    many thanks from a real messie (where did all this come from?) on line meeting seems the way forward to me, what have I got to loose, thank you.

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